How does one succeed in life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do Americans and foreigners alike describe the USA as prudish? Why do I see nothing prudish about the USA society? USA feels like one of the loosest countries although Americans claim to be very reserved.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Does not procrastinate.

Can men enjoy receiving anal sex?

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What can help me fall asleep at night?

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?

What I need from you?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why do Democrats keep calling Patriots/President Trump supporters "sore losers"? Do they purposefully ignore the massive fraud that took place, or genuinely think that there was zero fraud?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why is Hinduism not polytheistic?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

If Jesus spoke against abortion and prioritized family values, how quickly would he be dismissed as a patriarchal figure by modern progressives?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is it considered rude to comment on someone's weight? Is it simply stating a fact?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

When Trump blames DEI, isn't he just saying "it must be because there's black or brown people involved"?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Procrastinates a lot.

As a friend of Megan's who also watches Suits, would you advise her not to return to the show in order to protect her character's reputation?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why do Darwin atheists not like facts of Genesis? I’ve noticed they block and dismiss everything a person states. Is that how science works to hide when a truth comes at them?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?